I need help. If I notice anything negative about my wife's appearance I must tell her. If not I feel guilty. I obiously think she is beautiful, but I always unintentionally judge her. I always notice all of her "flaws" I can't concentrate on anything else. Is this ROCD? Or am I just a jerk? I love her so much. But, I don't seem to make her happy anymore.
Anyone else unintentionally judge their spouse? She is beautiful but i always notice something and i have to tell her because i feel guilty. I'm never happy. I used to be so happy all the time with her. She hasn't changed...i have but i love her!!! I hate myself.... i guess i just give myself excuses with ocd...i feel guilty for even writing this...i just want help...for my family
If it is causing you that much pain, from what I've heard it's just your OCD. I have dealt with pretty much every OCD in the book..I'm still having trouble. I have had thoughts that I was gay and i have a wife and 2 kids. Best luck I know how hard it can be.