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I usually do this a lot when I'm feeling down at work, or as though the world is going to make me feel pathetic and alone, but I thought I'd share them today in this posting:

Today, somethings happened that made me perceive life in a rather different way. This could be the worst thing for me, because it may push me over into the OCD desparity I have been feeling for so long. I am relieved I know where a lady colleague stands withh me at work. I'm a little hurt and firmly believe after 29 years of life, unless you have a distinctive, attractive quality, there really isn't someone out there for everyone.

My friend is right - "Do not make assumptions", meaning that if something is mean't to be, it'll happen. I'm frightened that I am a negative spirit. Please understand I cannot just change. I'm so sad and hurt writing this. I like Yvonne, but I'm probably not what she's looking for. She wants a perfect bad boy. i will however, take her out and respect her boundaries. I will still be lonely and hurt, but I won't lose her as a dance partner nor suffer the humiliation of being told we're just friends, nothing more.

Giles

Fri Jun 25 2010 13:43:07 #
Truddles
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Hi Giles,

Well you have more than one distinctive, attractive quality. You're a handsome, intelligent, sensitive and caring individual. You're also a great dancer and able to write creatively

You will find the special someone, you just have to be patient. It was only a few weeks ago that you thought you would never find a dance partner and now look.

First and foremost enjoy having her as your dance partner and who knows things might develop but if they don't then it wasn't to be. I don't think that you're a negative spirit, just a spirit who's feeling a little down at the moment

Fri Jun 25 2010 20:27:15 #
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I'm not any of those things. I'm a paedophile and should be burned in a pagan ritual

Fri Jun 25 2010 21:42:56 #
Moocher
Member

They don't burn people in pagan rituals nowadays so no worries on that score.
There are lots of people out there who are right for you. To meet them you have to put yourself about a bit. Accept invitations, talk to people.
It's not as simple as sitting back and saying if something is meant to be, it'll happen. If you meet someone you like, you have to make them aware that you like them or they may never know. Yes it does mean taking the risk of rejection. But everyone goes through it.

Sat Jun 26 2010 10:46:42 #
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Normal people go through it, which is anyone but me. I'd like to know what people really think about me. The disgusting, ugly man. I am ugly.

I don't have a fancy racoon haircut. My personality is ugly and I'm not a skin headed bad boy. You do the maths

Sat Jun 26 2010 10:58:51 #
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I'll be honest, all this deregistering is becoming too much to cope with. I don’t intend to follow suit, but I have decided that for the sake of my health I will be away for a while. There is always the worry as to whether we have upset those who deregister. Added to that are those who write asking for help but never even bother to acknowledge the replies. You know some are about by checking the users' directory, but they are that rude and inconsiderate.

Giles, I am not sure what I’ve done to offend you, it was truly unintentional. I’ve supported you here from day one of your joining the old forum.

To be honest the forum is all getting too much, it's worse than a primary school playground at times.

Tricia x

Sat Jun 26 2010 13:45:42 #
Wombat140
Member

Well. See you when you're feeling better, Giles. I know for a fact you aren't ugly or disgusting at all, but I don't expect you'll believe me just yet.
Tricia, pity you won't be on for a bit, but I do understand. All forums do get wearing at times, particularly ones that are on a naturally rather fraught subject like OCD.

Mon Jun 28 2010 20:49:57 #