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  1. I guess most of us on here have problems with intrusive thoughts especially the kind where something awful happens perhaps to a family member or someone close.

    Recently I've tried something that has helped me and I hope it can help others.

    When I've had a thought about something bad happening to someone I've tried to go back a step to see what I was thinking about before. The further back I go the better. This helps me to find out what lead me to the bad thought in the first place. Often it is a simple logical progression where all sorts of possibilities come to mind; for example, if a family member is just popping out to the the shop then you think of the journey an if that involves crossing a road then they could be run down by a car. That gets you thinking about what will happen if they are run down. So what I do is to go back to the previous thought that lead to the bad thought. This very often is quite a long sequence but it is usually quite logical and arrives at the start of the thought process. This then enables me to dismiss the bad thought because I now where it came from and that it was just my mind running loose and exploring all eventualities.

    Sounds to easy. Well maybe, but it helps me and I hope it will help others. Dunno why it works, but it does for me, not always but enough to make it worthwhile.

    Good luck,
    Bingo

    Wed May 19 2010 21:09:32 #
  2. Good advice Bingo, I will definatley try it and see if it helps me. Thanks!

    Sat May 22 2010 4:48:24 #
  3. im gonna give that ago also thx

    Sat May 22 2010 7:57:30 #
  4. I do that a lot and Bingo is right.

    It always amazes me that whenever I can find the cause of the thought that is causing the problem how easy it is just to dismiss the bad thought. In fact I would go further to suggest that this would work almost all of the time. When it doesn't work it is usually because for some reason I am too busy or too presurised with other things to make the time to do it.

    J

    Sat May 22 2010 21:36:12 #

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