Dear Stu, When my OCD is really bad, I haven’t found anything that will help. It’s why some of us have resorted to giving in to part of our OCD. It’s not what the experts recommend, but they aren’t in our shoes! However, we are not all the same, there may be something that will help you. Exercise helps many, and it might improve your sleep.
Have you ever tried meditation? It works for me when the stress isn’t over the top. Music also helps, but again, not when I am extremely anxious or experiencing awful intrusive thoughts. In fact, I had one of my worst experiences (OCD-wise) at a concert where the most relaxing, beautiful music was being played.
I am really sorry you are suffering like this at the moment. Are you taking any medication?
Tricia x