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blueboy
Member

i just wanted to make an opology here ..to TRICIA.. for anything i said which.. was less then friendly... i did not mean it... and i know you are a good soul.
PAUL.

Thu Mar 24 2011 15:51:22 #
blueboy
Member

FURTHER TO THIS(AS I CANNOT EDIT IT)
the nature of this illness.. causes people.. to react, in perhaops, more extreme ways ... than those without ocd... would..
especialy if you add to that, past trauma..
i think that Tricia and i just "set each other off"
at that moment in time... i hope others understand this ..PAUL

Thu Mar 24 2011 16:11:21 #
blueboy
Member

Also
Tricia....
you helped me so much...
i beg your forgiveness

Thu Mar 24 2011 18:16:31 #
tizzkins
Member

Hi Blueboy although i realise this situation is between you and tricia i would just like to say that i think it takes a lot to make the first move in a situation like this so from me well done and hope things improve for you.

Take care Tizzkins

Fri Mar 25 2011 12:18:42 #
nettlenoo
Member

hello blueboy good for you apologising it takes alot but you were brave enough to try and sort it out and not leave it. i hope you can resolve things and have a great friendship once again best of luck

Fri Mar 25 2011 12:34:19 #
brennie
Member

Hello Paul, i really hope that you and Tricia can resolve your differences soon, well done you for apologising....it takes some guts to say your sorry.

Love Brennie x

Fri Mar 25 2011 15:53:40 #
Gigolo
Member

Hey Paul. Well done for apologising. Don't take it personally if Tricia does not answer this post. She is taking a break from the forum at the moment

Fri Mar 25 2011 22:28:09 #
Unregistered

Thanks, Giles, I am on a break, maybe a permanent one, but ws alerted to this thread and thought it would lok mean-spirited to ignore it. My physical health has tken a downturn and I really don’t have the energy to write here at the moment.

Tizzkins, please don’t make assumptions. I actually ‘made the first move’ by contacting Paul, before he wrote this thread.

Paul, I was very touched by your apology. I do wish our problems had remained private. I would also prefer to resolve thm privately. Please. I’ll wrte later if I am able. x

Sat Mar 26 2011 12:31:52 #
blueboy
Member

Thank you all for adding to this post..
ofcourse i wished that things hadnt gone the way they did... but i think given the intense suffering that Tricia and i are currently experiencing, it was a high probability we would "erupt" in some way..I do regret that i brought our "tiff" onto the forum.. but i wasnt thinking clearly..i rarely leave the house, and the same i think, is true of Tricia...i can promise. however... that i would never do the same again..
Thank you Tizz, nettle, brennie, gigolo!
And i am thinking of you Tricia... and wish that i could just give you a big Hug

Sat Mar 26 2011 16:03:43 #
tizzkins
Member

I do apologise if i made the wrong asumption as it is very difficult to know what to say on this group sometimes especially when private conversations are brought onto the forum. I just wanted to offer blueboy some support and i dont see what is wrong with that. To be totally honest if you dont want people making the wrong assumption andn only getting half the story then it just might be an idea to keep private grievances just that private.

Sorry if i have offended anyone with this post but at the end of the day it was my post that got closed as a result of this.

I have decided to leave the group as i really dont need to get any more stressed in my life and i am now at the stage where i dont even feel safe replying to a post no one should feel this way but when i am accused of making assumptions its not really fair.

Thanks to everyone who has supported me whilst i have been a member of this group it means a lot to me. Although i will miss you all i think my time here is at an end and i do have other lines of support through various avenues.

I wish you all well.

Tizzkins

Sun Mar 27 2011 11:15:11 #
Unregistered

This was what I also wanted, Liz, to keep it private, but, as I explained, I had the right to defend myself once it had been brought onto a public forum.

I have tried to support you for many years, Liz, and I do sincerely wish you well. I also hope that you do manage to make that move to the sea, I think it would be wonderful for you.

Sun Mar 27 2011 12:07:03 #
blueboy
Member

TIZZ, very sorry...if i caused this..
i was sorry to "hijack" your thread.. but i have tried to make up since to everyone..
for me the matter is closed... but not, for others perhaps..once again sorry.

Sun Mar 27 2011 15:40:44 #