[quote="Tricia":2mqj873r]Dear Steve, It's good to hear from you, I know you've been very busy lately, but we've missed you here. I'm sorry you have a possible mouse problem, too, let's hope they stay out of your flat itself.
Naturally, we have seen to the gaps our side. My daughter and I re-pointed the walls, last year, and my husband has put mesh over the air bricks, even those twenty feet up, just in case the mice do attempt to climb that far (they are capable of it). Semi-detached houses (at least the kind we live in) are one building to rodents, and neighbours have to cooperate. I have spoken to ours and they won't.
As you realized, a cat would be more source of contamination for me. Anyway, cats are usually ineffective. Mice do not leave houses just because a cat is in residence. I have a friend who is struggling with a mouse problem, and she has a cat. The cat occasionally injures a mouse, which adds to her distress, as she has to find a way to kill it. The only way a cat might keep a home free of mice is if it were not fed, then it would become a hunter and exist on the mice. The thought of the carnage is enough to prevent me attempting that!
Unfortunately, I'm feeling worse, if that's possible. I think I have glandular fever again, and I'm sure that's because of the continual high anxiety. I can't stop myself from trembling with fear. I can't sleep for more than a couple of hours at night. I just want this nightmare of a life to end. You're right, missing my friend hasn't helped. How desperately I want to join him. Having said that, I have prayed for a release from this hell of an existence for over thirty years, long beofre the loss of David.
I sincerely hope your mouse goes away and doesn't cause you any more stress.
Best wishes,
Tricia x
Dear Tricia,
I'm sorry you're feeling so desperate and down about your mouse and OCD problem. I can't understand why your neighbours won't co-operate with trying to help your mouse infestation. Don't they have a mouse problem too? They must do, so I don't get why they won't seal up holes, etc.
It's more likely that the mice are getting in from outside, anyway. Sounds like you need someone working with rodent control who knows what they're doing to come out and do something about this. The mice can only be getting in from outside.
I'll have to tell my property agents about my problem, as it is getting on my nerves a bit now. My old flat once had a mouse, and I tried to catch it, but I didn't stand a chance! I saw it first while I was watching T.V, I just saw this flicker of movement from the corner of my eye, and there it was! I put some traps down, and didn't see it for months, then it re-appeared this night. I was up half the night trying to catch the damn thing.
I even took a swipe at it with one of my slippers, but it was just too fast! It wasn't dumb, either.
I watched it trying to get through a gap in the skirting board, but it couldn't do it. Then later it disappeared, and I taped up the hole in the skirting board. I didn't see the mouse again, but I knew it had been back, as it actually took the bait from the trap without setting off the trap! Amazing. It may sound funny, but it was an absolute nuisance.
But I don't know what to suggest about your problem, other than try and find out where they may be getting in from outside, place traps close to holes they're getting through, and nag your council about getting rid of the sodding things once and for all. You pay your council tax, after all, so you should be getting something back.
Also, is there any particular source outside of your house which may be attracting them? Is there a pile of rubbish close by, perhaps? In the meantime, try not to be afraid of them. I know they spread germs, but I keep the bathroom/kitchen doors closed at night to contain any mouse, should it ever get past the skirting board and into the flat.
Little ba*tards, aren't they? Lol
I hope you can very soon find a positive outcome to this problem, Tricia, and that you feel much better.
Best wishes,
Steve xx