Yeah, you'll be fine Helz
Yeah, you'll be fine Helz
I'm not just having a bad day it's been a bad year and there appears to be no end to the misery that the OCD is causing
Not done yet, still putting it off.
Will get it done today though. I will.
Meant to start working on it earlier this morning but I got distracted when I went in the loo and found some poo splattered on the wall. I nearly screamed the house down. If my dad hadn't been out I'd have throttled him, the disgusting *******.
I hate to say this, but in itself, that is one of the sickest things anybody can do. I'd throttle him and I don't even know him
I can't fathom how he manages to completely miss the toilet? Does he use a funnel or something? Yuk
Trudy, I know things are going to get better for you. I genuinely thought I was finished between 2008 and september 2009, so I understand.
Time for a poo joke:
A Dutch artist, in the wild '60s, did weird 'projects' to confound and shock people. One of these was:
he built excellent realistic turds by mixing ground dark-brown cake and beer. He placed these in the poshest shopping street in Amsterdam, on Sunday mornings, before dawn.
Then, at sunrise, very rich and picky elderly ladies entered the street, to walk their oh so precious and expensive little doggies.
Guess what: the dogs jumped right on the 'turds' and devoured these wholesale with relish (cake and beer is the dream of every dog).
You can imagine the total shock and state of fit the rich ladies went into...
Haha, Cuthbert! And Giles, I know right?! I don't get how he manages it, I think he flicks it when he wipes himself.
He's quite old now and his eyes are going, but that's still no excuse. I think he might be going senile though, and I'm not joking when I say that.
If he is, it means that things are going to get worse and there could be poo everywhere soon. I don't want to live in an old people's home.
Helz bells, whats all this, who did the poo? Guys do you have to be so graphic!!! I can see it, yuk!!!
My dad has a problem with getting poo everywhere. And it doesn't help my OCD at all. Things got so bad a few weeks ago I nearly just upped and left home, but I'm glad I didn't because there's nowhere for me to go. So I have to live in a house covered in poo germs.
Ohh , sorry Helz, that has to be your worst nightmare!! I don't know who I feel for more, you or your dad.
I get angry at him but I also feel embarrassed for him because he doesn't know he's doing it. I can't say to him about it because I don't want to show him up as an old git who's losing his marbles.
Well I don't know how you cope with the situation. He doesn't know he's doing it, and you can't tell him either. I can see how that can make anyone get angry and frustrated. Whats the solutions Helz, is there one?
There's no solution, I don't think, other than to get out. I've talked to my mum but she wont say anything to him either. She asked him to wash his hands after going for a pee but he still doesn't do that. So even if we did say something he probably wouldn't make much of an effort.
oh that is a dilema to be in!! No one wants to offend him. It must be very hard to live like that. Is he aware of your OCD?
I'd get a gym membership and use their bathroom facilities - Get a subsidised plan from your uni gym. It'd still be exposure, but less painful, as there is less likely to be poo in the showers and the toilets are usually well kept (being that its the ladies loos
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He is aware, but just doesn't really get it. Oh well.
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