Hi motto,
Although I stayed at the Bethlem unfortunately, I did not stay for all of the twelve weeks because of childcare issues, which is sad.
All I can say is that it is a very friendly atmosphere and you soon get to know people and feel less alone.
The therapist will talk to you about your treatment .
When I was there I would stay for one week, then go home for the weekend and return again on either the Sunday night or Monday morning, that worked for me with the children. After two weeks I then did three days a week for a further three weeks.
I think you need to do what works for you. Other residents stayed also for the weekend, but not every time.
We all had our own rooms with a key and could also leave the site if we wished to, to go to the local shops etc.
I had the funding approved, it took a little while and then I was put on a waiting list for my stay.
Please be patient and I am sure things will move in the right direction for you. I hope this has helped you a little and you get treated very soon. Wish you well, K xxx.