OCD Action

brennie
Member

Hello Lishuishui, i am wishing and hopeing that you can take back those words which you wrote to Tricia, she does not deserve such treatment like this from yourself.
She struggles everyday to survive from her own ocd which is severely distressing for her to cope with , but yet she comes on here to help us sufferers more than anyone else i know.
I hope she does'nt mind me taking liberty's in discussing her but i respect and care for this lady a lot.
Believe me Lishuishui my friend Tricia would have comleted her promise to you IF you would have given her the time to organise this meeting with her associate, sometimes it takes patience when we ask favours of others especially if they are ocd sufferers themselves.
I hope you can find it in your heart to apologise , i understand how US sufferers can soon get frustrated when things dont happen as quick as we want them too but we cannot go attacking fellow sufferers , because its simply unfare to do so.

love brennie x

Mon Oct 6 2008 12:34:31 #
stevieb
Member

Yes Lishuishu, a genuine apology can go a long way.

Mon Oct 6 2008 23:27:46 #
Jerama
Member

I wonder if Lishuishui fully understands what the board is about and who the people posting are. Clearly English is not her first language therefore there is the possibility that she has not really understood and was genuinely expecting "professional" advice rather than comment and help from fellow sufferers. A long shot, I agree, but nevertheless a possibility.

Jerama

Tue Oct 7 2008 10:49:22 #
Unregistered

Thank you for your messages. I had a very bad day on Sunday, an OCD sufferer in America also told me I don't care, even though I phone this person for several hours a week and am doing all I can to help by phoning organizations in the States. I think something snapped when I read Lishuishui's message. Jerama, I know English is not his/her first language, but I also have realized over the months, in various threads, that he is rather impatient and demanding. I remained patient, until Sunday. I had been researching all his symptoms and, as Bren said, would have sought the opinion of the specialist I had referred to, when circumstances allowed. Unfortunately I don't think language is the problem.

Love, Tricia.

Tue Oct 7 2008 12:50:59 #
lishuishui
Member

tricia,thanks a lot for you apology to me i will not blame you at all ,because of your so severe conditions .i can identify with your mood and mind as fellow membership .please take care yourself carefully and continue to keep you in better mood and state .

Wed Oct 8 2008 12:21:49 #
lishuishui
Member

i harely understand bennie action and his motive .he asked for me to apology to tricia and the same time he however, comfort, soothe and console comfort me .at apology matter i emphase one most imortant my opinion and stand ;someone since make his promise and he must carry out his promise.or to me it's unfaie and unjust,very clearly ;nobody likes his time and anticipation and expection to get wasted and lost.

Wed Oct 8 2008 12:40:53 #
brennie
Member

LISHUISHUI, i will try and help you understand my actions !

I am very dissapointed with the way you spoke to Tricia , you attacked her when she was trying to help you which is a very selfish act of yours but i do realize that this is not the first time you have done it.

You were only thinking of your own needs and not the feelings of fellow sufferers , you were being very impatient with Tricia when she was doing her best to help you.

My actions of being sympathetic for you is my nature ( unlike your own ).

I hope that you can take this critisism and learn from it for the future, we can only do our best for each other we simply cant perform miracles overnight for you Lishuishui, please try to be more considerate for other people.

Promises can sometimes be broken or postponed in Tricias case because she finds it very difficult to conduct her own life whilst endevouring to help others.

I do empathise with your hives condition Lishuishui which i hope you can get help with.

I wrote a PM to you because i did not want you to be hurt from my post but that does not change my mind about the way i feel about your insulting post to Tricia.

Brennie

Wed Oct 8 2008 14:13:39 #
brennie
Member

lishuishui, you are accepting an appology from Tricia but where is YOUR appology to her ?

brennie

p.s. i am a she ( a lady )

Wed Oct 8 2008 14:22:20 #
Unregistered

Bren, my dear, dear friend. I know how you are struggling at this time. The fact that you have been so incredibly supportive of me, despite your extreme anxieties, means the world.

Lishuishui, there is no confusion over Bren's comments or motives. Bren is a very special lady, she is a gifted human, who despite any feelings of upset she might feel towards another, who has behaved badly, she still cares deeply about that person's well-being. She has told me how worried she is about you, it doesn't mean she feels your comments towards me were acceptable, and she knows how distressed your attitude made me.

I don't feel I broke a promise. I did promise not to forget you, and I never will. I could not have visited the specialist with the physical health problems I had last month. It would not have been fair to him (let alone the strain it would have placed on me, and then the repercussions on my family) because I had an infectious condition. I hate to let anyone down, but with all the will in the world, there are circumstances that prevent us from doing what we say we will. Patience my friend is a virtue and I realize you are feeling desperate, most of us here are.

Maybe you have been let down a lot in your life. All along you did seem impatient and doubtful as to whether I would remember to help you.

Love, Tricia.

Fri Oct 10 2008 12:50:54 #
lishuishui
Member

Brennie; i feel your word and action is very like Chairman Mao and his called criticism meeting .and as for Maoism and who is the chairman mao everybody in this world will know them i believe it.so i above tomake any response to you .as for tricia i'm very pathetic her and her severe symtoms .i think she will do her best for my concers if her conditions allow she to do it.

Sat Oct 11 2008 10:53:04 #
brennie
Member

Lishuishui, i have realized that you are a very stubbord human being so therefore it comes to no suprise that you will not apologise to Tricia or for that matter i believe that you would find it difficult to appologise to anybody ! reason being you are obviously a selfish self centred person who is far too self opinionative to try and understand anybody elses concerns.

I think your impatience was unneccesary , as i mentioned before THIS IS NOT ALL ABOUT LISHUISHUIE try a little compasion for other sufferers, if you are aiming to attack ME know with your chinese words that meen nothing to me then please dont bother because at the moment i have got more important things to think about.

Brenda

Sat Oct 11 2008 12:49:33 #
Nimrod
Key Master

I think everybody has had the opportunity to say all they want to say and that this thread has now run its course, therefore I ask that members voluntarily make no further posts on this matter.

Caps
Moderator

Sat Oct 11 2008 21:13:48 #