http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up It's Time to Act. OCD Action provides support and information for people affected by Obsessive Compulsive Disorder. Mon, 21 May 2012 16:17:30 +0000 http://bbpress.org/?v=1.0.2 q http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/search.php http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up#post-30358 Fri, 06 Jun 2008 14:36:25 +0000 anxiousgal 30358@http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/ [quote=&quot;swan&quot;:37vy4fqo]Hi,<br /> Thanks for everyones support.<br /> I decided to go to my drs today as occupational health said there wasn't a reason for me to go back unless my gp didn't agree.<br /> So i return to work on monday and will now be ighting the situation within work. unless my boss suspends me. I have come to the conclusion that my boss is not bothered about sending relevant reports. I think my boss is just playing for time so i go onto half pay. If i do ultimately lose my job going onto half pay is not helpful.<br /> Im apprehensive about what will happen on monday but have decided no matter when i go back i will be apprehensive.<br /> teresa</blockquote><br /> <br /> Hi again!<br /> <br /> It sounds like your boss wants to cut costs to me. I hope it goes well for you Monday!<br /> <br /> Luv Natasha http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up#post-30357 Fri, 06 Jun 2008 14:34:59 +0000 anxiousgal 30357@http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/ [quote=&quot;esta&quot;:1ry90744]Hi,<br /> <br /> and do you know what if you said &quot;yes hands up I cant work because of having ocd well or not, give me benefit money to live off instead&quot; they would turn around and say &quot;no no you are quite capable of work &quot; closed minded idiots.<br /> Sorry abit miffed at mo.<br /> Keep going Teresa</blockquote><br /> <br /> Hi Teresa<br /> <br /> That would be right, you can't win can you?! Have you considered looking for another job?Or are you worried about what kind of reference they would give you? <br /> <br /> Luv Natasha http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up#post-30355 Fri, 06 Jun 2008 14:08:55 +0000 Anonymous 30355@http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/ Dear Teresa, That is very good news, it looks as though Monday is a big day for you, Bren and Nicola! You go in there holding your head up high. You have had such a fight to get to this point and you have been so courageous. I hope all goes well for you. <br /> <br /> Love, Tricia. http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up#post-30350 Fri, 06 Jun 2008 12:59:01 +0000 swan 30350@http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/ Hi,<br /> Thanks for everyones support.<br /> I decided to go to my drs today as occupational health said there wasn't a reason for me to go back unless my gp didn't agree.<br /> So i return to work on monday and will now be ighting the situation within work. unless my boss suspends me. I have come to the conclusion that my boss is not bothered about sending relevant reports. I think my boss is just playing for time so i go onto half pay. If i do ultimately lose my job going onto half pay is not helpful.<br /> Im apprehensive about what will happen on monday but have decided no matter when i go back i will be apprehensive.<br /> teresa http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up#post-30346 Fri, 06 Jun 2008 12:20:29 +0000 hester 30346@http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/ Hi Teresa,<br /> <br /> There's no need to appologise! We like to know what's going on so we can try to help and support you.<br /> This is discrimination, and they don't seem to have a case. It just seems like your boss is trying to bully you out of your job, so don't give up! If he could legally fire you, don't you think he would have done that already? Since it seems to be taking so long, he obviously doesn't have much of a case. It is unfair dismissal.<br /> <br /> Hester xx http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up#post-30342 Fri, 06 Jun 2008 11:11:00 +0000 brennie 30342@http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/ Teresa, your boss sounds a right **** head, he is trying to wear you out and it sounds as though you are letting him succeed .... Dont let him win ! this guy is totally out of order, he has no right to discriminate you like this.<br /> <br /> You are made of stronger stuff than you think hunny <!-- s:) --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" title="Smile" /><!-- s:) --> you have waited for months to be heard so another couple of weeks will fly by, hang in there Teresa please.<br /> <br /> Dont apologise to us for anything afterall that is what we are here for , you have gone through hell with this amount of pressure , believe me Teresa &quot; i think you are marvellous &quot; to have suffered this length of time, but not to worry it will soon be over.<br /> <br /> love brennie x <!-- s:) --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" title="Smile" /><!-- s:) --> http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up#post-30340 Fri, 06 Jun 2008 00:16:13 +0000 swan 30340@http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/ Hi,<br /> Sorry if everyone is getting fed up with all threads. Well i contacted occupational health and they read out the letter that has been sent to my boss. baisically still no decision they want more information from him. And want to see me at the end of june .Its unikely that my boss will have got back to them. I am totally fed up. fed up with people's attitudes towards me. <!-- s:( --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_sad.gif" alt=":(" title="Sad" /><!-- s:( --> http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up#post-30334 Thu, 05 Jun 2008 23:31:20 +0000 brennie 30334@http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/ Esta, good point your right they probably would ! <br /> <br /> luv brennie http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up#post-30331 Thu, 05 Jun 2008 22:20:44 +0000 esta 30331@http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/ Hi,<br /> <br /> and do you know what if you said &quot;yes hands up I cant work because of having ocd well or not, give me benefit money to live off instead&quot; they would turn around and say &quot;no no you are quite capable of work &quot; closed minded idiots.<br /> Sorry abit miffed at mo.<br /> Keep going Teresa http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up#post-30324 Wed, 04 Jun 2008 21:04:41 +0000 anxiousgal 30324@http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/ Hi Teresa!<br /> <br /> Sorry to hear that you are STILL being messed about by these employers of yours! <!-- s:( --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_sad.gif" alt=":(" title="Sad" /><!-- s:( --> <br /> <br /> Luv Natasha http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up#post-30314 Wed, 04 Jun 2008 13:32:39 +0000 hester 30314@http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/ Hi Teresa,<br /> <br /> Don't give up! It's not been a total waste of time. If your psychiatrist said you were fit to work, then he would know best. If they want to get rid of you because of your OCD then that's discrimination and you should have a case against it. Hang in there!<br /> <br /> Hester xx http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up#post-30312 Wed, 04 Jun 2008 13:13:34 +0000 brennie 30312@http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/ Hi Teresa , i hate ocd also , but guess what &quot; i am beginning to dislike your boss even more for putting you through all this torment .<br /> These 3 months have not entirely been wasted , you still have a case ... keep fighting Swan !<br /> Try what Tricia has said contact OCD ACTION and ask for some help and advice from them, they are brilliant in matters like this <!-- s:) --><img src="{SMILIES_PATH}/icon_smile.gif" alt=":)" title="Smile" /><!-- s:) --> <br /> <br /> Love brennie x http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up#post-30308 Wed, 04 Jun 2008 12:44:43 +0000 Anonymous 30308@http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/ Dear Teresa, I'm so sorry to hear how you are feeling, I am not much help to you or anyone at the moment, because I am feeling the same, hating OCD and the continual battle. Can't your psychiatrist help you with this? He said you were fit to work. I don't see how your boss can discriminate like this. Have you phoned OCD Action and asked for advice, they are really helpful.<br /> <br /> Love, Tricia. http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/topic/fed-up#post-30306 Wed, 04 Jun 2008 12:28:10 +0000 swan 30306@http://www.ocdaction.org.uk/forums/ Hi,<br /> Im totally fed up, i rang occupational health and they have made the recomendations for my job but couldnt tell me and have told me that at the end of the day they only make recomendations and its up to my boss. As he's wanted me to leave since feb just feel the last three months have been waste of time and they were covering their backs. I HATE OCD. i HATE HOW ITS EFFECTING MY LIFE!!!!!!!!!!